words.......
or is it actions?
those people around you that you call 'friends' or even 'best friends'
are you sure they are your 'friends' or 'best friends'
what did they tell you?
'oh, i will be there for you no matter what! i promise'
no. wrong. just no.
some of them. they may seem like they are there for you but when they turn around?
there they are gossiping about you. why?
why do that?
if you don't want to be someone's friend/best friend, just say so.
you don't just say words and make promises that you can't keep.
that's just wrong. no.
you have no idea how hurt he/she feels.
i can tell you it definitely hurts more than being kicked in the dick.
i swear.
trust me, it hurts.
worst of all, there are people who don't gossip about you but are there for you.
some of these people, can you trust them? may you think,
'oh yeah sure. they don't gossip about me so it's fine'
what if they don't care at all?
have you ever thought of that?
what if they just pretend that they care?
'oh, its ok. at least i still have someone to talk to about my sorrows.'
honestly, no.
it doesn't work that way.
ask yourself this.
'would i want to be treated like that? would i want to have people that are just pretending to care but actually can't wait for me to shut up and stop talking? would i want people to just sat that they care just prove that they are right, they are there but actually don't give two shit? how would i feel?'
if you pretend to care, you are cheating someone's feelings and you are betraying his/her trust.
you are making him/her feel that someone actually cares.
you may think that it is not important but it is.
in the society we are in right now, having just one person that would actually cares means a lot.
if you cheat his/her feelings, eventually him/her will be able to feel it.
not through your words but your actions.
you may think you can act it all but no.
you are killing that person inside out, slowly.
as time goes by, him/her would keep more things to him/herself.
he/she would bottle everything that one day, it would kill.
it will destroy him/her.
so, if you actually don't care, or not happy about him/her's certain action,
tell them.
it's the only way for them to change or not, do you expect him/her to know it magically?
no. don't assume.
and only say things that you mean.
make promises that you can keep.
or not, just shut it.
'actions speak louder than words'
dont wait till it's too late.
xo,
Chloe.