Recently, I had a few heart to heart talks with people. It made me realised how I am in a really good place right now. As I was giving advices and sharing my opinions on what to do, I realised that I have grown so much. I am no longer where I was before and I have learnt a lot through the time I have for myself. Being alone and single has empowered me and made me learnt a lot. I have learnt that I shouldn't depend so much on others and should always learn to not give my heart away.
Being alone was one of the best choices I have made in life thus far. I felt more and more comfortable alone, independent and individual. I have found out even more about what I want to do in life and what I am going to do to get there. I think being alone also made me realised what kind of a person I want to be and how I will improve to be better. I listen to a lot of stories along the way and have given my 2 cents about them. And through that, I also realise what I want in a person and what I expect of myself.
I like the fact that I didn't have to report to anyone. I didn't have to be a responsibility to anyone neither was anyone else my responsibility. I am no constantly on my phone waiting for a text, a call or anything for that matter. I am paying more attention to the people that I am hanging out with. I am growing more and more as a person and I am seeing things even more clearly. I don't have a heavy heart anymore and I don't have to worry about having another heartbreak.
I guess when the time is right, that person will appear. I suppose that the person will eventually use actions to prove to me that it is possible to be in love again. It is possible to mean what you say. It is possible to keep promises and be mature and realistic. It is possible to make things work because you want to.
I now, want to live in the moment. I will go with the flow and if one things leads to another then it does. What's meant to be will be and what will happen, will happen. There's only so much I can do towards the things that I am in control of. Be happy. Take it easy.
xo,
Chloe